I am such a noob...

My switch from my previous Blogdrive to Blogger, has taken some getting used to. It has taken me two whole days to figure out how this thing works, find a relatively simple template to use without all the fancy - schmancy tabs which I will never for the life of me, be able to edit or personalize. Can someone please tell me how do I remove the "Contact Me" link from the top of the page? And how on Earth do I underline stuff? I am so confused.

And I haven't even begun to personalize it yet. +_+ <---(What?! No smilies? Where can I get me some smilies?)